The Rishta Meeting Guide ₹199 · PDF

A PDF guide for men and women

Know what to ask before you meet.

60 questions that matter, the signs to notice in the answers, and a simple way to decide what comes next.

Pehli mulaqat, poori taiyari.

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34-page PDF · Simple English with Hinglish lines · Phone card and 60 printable question cards

Cover of The Rishta Meeting Guide
The phone card: your top questions on one screen

Sound familiar?

One hour, two families, and no plan.

You get an hour, two families in the next room, and no plan.

You talk about jobs and hobbies, then leave knowing nothing that matters.

Everyone asks “So, what did you think?” and you can’t put it into words.

You worry that a direct question will sound rude.

This guide gives you the questions to ask, the signs to notice, and a clear way to decide.

What’s inside

Seven short parts, in the order you’ll need them.

  1. 01

    Before you meet

    A 15-minute prep sheet, what to tell your family first, rough answers to the questions they’ll ask you, where to meet, and safety checks for app and website matches.

    p. 3
  2. 02

    The first 10 minutes

    How to settle in, what to say first, three lines for when it goes quiet, and how to end well, in English and Hinglish.

    p. 8
  3. 03

    60 questions in 6 topics

    Work and money, family and home, daily life, values and faith, children and future, the past and expectations. Every question comes with why it matters, a polite way to ask it and a Hinglish line.

    p. 9
  4. 04

    Signs to notice

    10 green flags and 10 red flags in how someone answers, with boxes to tick after you meet.

    p. 22
  5. 05

    When the families talk

    What elders usually ask, questions you can ask the family, and what to say if anyone brings up dowry, with the law in plain words.

    p. 24
  6. 06

    After the meeting

    A 10-point decision sheet that turns “I don’t know how I feel” into clear answers, and a page to compare matches fairly if you’re meeting more than one.

    p. 26
  7. 07

    Yes, no, or one more meeting

    Four ready-to-send messages in English and Hinglish: let’s meet again, I need more time, a kind no, and one for your parents.

    p. 29

Comes with the guide

60 question cards

Every question as a printable card, colour-coded by topic, with blank cards for your own. Cut, pick 10, practise.

Phone card

Your top 10 questions on one phone screen, to glance at before you walk in.

Second meeting plan

12 deeper questions for when you meet again.

A page of the printable question cards

Look inside

Real pages from the guide.

34 pages, designed to read on your phone or print at home.

Page 7 of the guide: Safety checks for app and website matches
p. 7Safety checks for app and website matches
Page 8 of the guide: The first 10 minutes, with lines to say
p. 8The first 10 minutes, with lines to say
Page 10 of the guide: Every question, with why and how to ask
p. 10Every question, with why and how to ask
Page 25 of the guide: If anyone brings up dowry
p. 25If anyone brings up dowry
Page 26 of the guide: The 10-point decision sheet
p. 26The 10-point decision sheet
Page 33 of the guide: 60 question cards to print and cut
p. 3360 question cards to print and cut

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Three questions from the guide.

Every question comes with the reason to ask it and a natural way to say it.

Daily life

What does a normal weekday look like for you?

Why it matters
You’ll live the weekdays, not the wedding.
Say it like this
“I’m curious, what does your usual day look like, start to finish?”

In Hinglish“Aapka ek normal din kaisa hota hai?”

Work and money

How do you manage money today?

Why it matters
You’ll make money decisions together every month.
Say it like this
“I’ve started saving more this year. How do you usually plan your money?”

In Hinglish“Aap paise kaise plan karte ho?”

Family and home

Where do you see yourself living in five years?

Why it matters
Living with family or on your own is one of the first big decisions after marriage.
Say it like this
“What does home look like for you a few years from now?”

In Hinglish“Aage chalke aap kahan rehna chahte ho?”

Is this for you?

Made for the meeting itself.

It’s for you if

  • You have a first or second meeting coming up.
  • You’re a sibling or parent helping someone prepare.
  • You want real answers without sounding rude.

It’s not the right fit if

  • You want dating tips, kundli matching or a matchmaker.
  • You want the guide to decide for you. It helps you think. You decide.

How you get it

Three steps, five minutes.

  1. Pay ₹199 by UPI or card.
  2. Download the PDF, the phone card and the question cards right after you pay.
  3. Read it once, then keep the phone card handy for the day.

Questions

Before you buy.

Is this only for women?

No. Every question works for men and women, and many work for parents too.

Is it in Hindi?

The guide is in simple English. Every question also has a natural way to say it in Hinglish.

Won’t I sound rehearsed?

You pick the 8 to 10 questions that matter to you, not all 60. Each one comes with a natural way to say it.

Does it work if we met through an app?

Yes. There’s a page of safety checks for app and website matches, and every question works the same way.

What are the question cards?

A separate PDF with all 60 questions as cards: print on A4, cut them out, pick your 10 and practise with a sibling or friend. There are blank cards for your own questions too.

I get nervous at the start. Does it help?

Yes. The first-10-minutes page gives you what to say to settle in, three lines for when it goes quiet, and a polite way to end.

Can parents or siblings use it?

Yes. The families section covers what elders ask, what you can ask them, and what to say about dowry.

Can I get a refund?

TODO: add your refund policy before launch

How do I reach you?

Write to hello@theloopbreaker.in.

You’re not there to pass a test. You’re there to find out.

Everything from the night before to the message you send after.

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